Thursday, July 26, 2007

Breaking up is hard to do or IS it!

Sometimes there is no words to adequately describe how I feel and I need a few days to digest my screaming urge to whap someone upside the head.

Several things get my blood to boil but none quite so much as men who should have a brain transplant! What is it that suddenly makes otherwise intelligent men take leave of there senses and decided after many moons that they just don't want to keep house anymore. Is it stress, lack of control, lack of commitment, anxiety, want to screw around with someone else, pango pango or is it that the lack the ability to truly respect women in general.

As far as I am concerned also WHERE you tell a women she is chopped liver is just as important and maybe men should think about there choice of where and when to do that. OK there is no good way but being in a loving environment all nice and cuddly in bed with her is not the place to tell someone "OH, by the way, I am seeing someone else!" WTF?!!

What possible motive is that but possibly mental cruelty. Just come and say in a nice way that you can't handle what is happening and don't want to deal with it because you have your own issues to deal with. What is the matter with being honest. Not brutal, not cruely but with the honor and smarts I know these men posses.

Maybe they are just not smart enough to see that they could be in the exact same position someday and I truly hope someone walks on them. Maybe then they will understand the honor and commitment and respect of one another really means.

It doesn't mean you throw up your hands and say I just can't do this anymore, it means that no matter what you try to work it out no matter how stressed you are. You just don't pick up all your game pieces and go home when you aren't winning or perceive there is no end to the issues.

Although maybe the women are better off because they now know that this person cannot be trusted and the respect they THOUGHT was there simply wasn't.

Peoples lives are a lot to handle now days, it is not easy and not an easy world and it is getting worse. It is not simple and free anymore. It is complicated and difficult.

It makes me sad for the women and it makes me sorry for these men that they will never find what they are looking for and will wander aimlessly from woman to woman looking for that ever elusive something they just can't seem to grab.

Pueda mil pulgas atacan los testículos! Buenas noches

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